wedding madness

whoa, it's less than mth away from our actual big days.. Gi's not feeling the anxiety yet but 
i'm beginning to be abit anxious..haha..Maybe coz he still has to go work & worry abt other 
things while i'm like almost fulltime into this.. haha.. But well, his words do make sense, why worry about things when they haven't arrive? Easier to deal with it 
by compartmentalising things more..  Actualli now with my  increased free time, it is helpful coz can afford to do be kinder to my brain & body..Hope i'd say
 the same when the bank balance dwindles..haha..anyway now it's reali tying up the loose 
ends of our wedding preps..esp our guest list, seating arrangements & briefing frens who're helpling.. Challenging stuff ahead for the seating arrangements..   
thankfuly there're many frens who're so ever ready to lend a helping hand..such gd fortune 
to meet with wonderful frens we've.. :  ) 
 
This Wed, some customary ritual will take place which is kinda funny (the thought of the ritual preps), with roasted pig,oranges, canned foodstuff, and all...gdness.. sometimes it's hard to avoid these rituals, so we sorta appreciate the culture & customs of it all...guess it's part & parcel of what families like to be involved in.. ;)